[NoraSpinnor]

Perfection is a mirage—compelling from afar, corrosive up close. A key Stoic insight is that every action carries a cost as well as a reward. Nothing arrives free of trade-offs; sometimes the price is less than ideal, yet the overall gain is still worth it. In such a world, “perfect” is structurally impossible: the good always drags some bad in its wake. Progress, too, is never 100% beneficial. Each advance exposes the faults of the last generation; today’s elegant solution is tomorrow’s maintenance headache.

If we cling to an image of perfection, we set an impossible standard that breeds paralysis, cynicism, or cruelty in the name of purity. A better aim is harmony and balance: dynamic equilibrium rather than flawless stasis. Harmony asks, “What mix of goods and costs can this community (or person) sustainably carry?” Balance accepts that values compete, then tunes the system so no single value devours the rest: justice with mercy, freedom with responsibility, efficiency with resilience.

Practically, that means favoring reversible choices over irreversible ones; measuring progress by reduced regret and increased robustness; and trading a little peak performance for a lot more stability under stress. It means replacing “Is this perfect?” with “Is this livable, adaptive, and kind?”

Do you struggle with the idea of perfection?
How do you recommend people effectively pursue progress without getting hung up on perfection?

[joshchen]

This concept is really big in Taoism too. I think people could really benefit if they took this concept to heart. We can’t have it all and have no bad consequences. Everything has a price and you have to be willing to pay it. Nowadays, people want things immediately and dont think about the work involved. Wanna be a youtube star? Well you gotta work two jobs, setting aside all your freetime to make videos, script, edit, and then keep at it when you’re still not getting views. People don’t think about the cost and they give up too easy.

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